Hi Paul,
Thoughts from Dirk Brandts...
Rob loved mat riding, that thing which we all share. The ocean and the mats were a source of happiness and elation for him, and he shared it so often with us, his far-flung community of kindred spirits. We mourn his death, while at the same time remember that ecstatic quality that he experienced with his friends, in the waves, the light, the motion, and the overall atmosphere which served to give his spirit a lift.
I don’t like to introduce platitudes, but I often think of the one, "Do not cry because they are past! Smile, because they once were!” Kind of a difficult Stoic point of view, but it’s there for the pondering.
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From Jonathan Hess...
I heard this AM. Had a surf on a morning that went from clear and blue to grey pearl overcast and heartbreakingly sad.
I kept thinking of this sweet, sweet guy who just gushed positivity, joy and gratitude.
Kept
thinking the word "guileless". A lot of men keep their enthusiasms
muted to seem "cool"... surfers are really hung up on "cool". Self
included.
Rob didn't have that lame filter, not a bit of it. He
FROTHED. He was a new surfer who I think started on Paul's mats. He was
STOKED. And Grateful. He wrote to Paul it seemed like after every go
out, raving with unbridled joy, emphasizing himself with capitals-
"Thank You for your Vehicles of Joy". And he often signed off with
"Sending Lots of Positive Vibes and Healing Energy!"
He said "Yew!" a lot in his letter, and in the water too, after a ride:
https://surfmatters.blogspot.com/2017/11/from-rob.html
He
went from full beginner to a successful Tube Rider pretty damn fast.
And he got to where he was going for it in pretty big surf too:
https://surfmatters.blogspot.com/2018/09/from-rob.html
He
was STOKED on what he was feeling on Paul's mats and he was evangelical
about sharing it. From what I can gather he bought mats just to have to
share. This is all from what I've been re-reading in his posts, but he
obviously cherished his friends and did dawnies all the time with his
crew.
His valued friend Chris captured numerous sessions
beautifully on film. Tons of little lime-green tubes. The most humble
little waves, but they looked magical, partly because of Chris's skills,
but certainly because of the sheer stoke emanating from them.
I just love that Rob stoked Paul to put together an appreciation of Chris:
https://surfmatters.blogspot.com/2018/03/chris-falzone.html
It says so much about what Rob thought most important: his friends. The Mat Community.
I
love the photos Chris put together as a tribute, especially the one of
Rob grinning at the view as he heads into the approaching closeout. Oh
man. Oh Brother. Paul I hope you might find the one you labeled "Best
Mat Surfing Pic, "Mystical Experience" Category" in 2017, the one with
the sunrise behind the wave, and Rob trimming. (Posted below...PG)
Sending lots of Love and Healing Energy to the people Rob left behind.
Jonathan
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From Jonathan Steinberg...
Dang! Such a sweet guy. Every communication with him had joy.
I know he struggled but he always managed something positive. Life is short and precious.
Harmless Neighborhood Eccentric
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From George Leone...
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Rob. I mourn his loss as a teacher to me...someone who has surfed for almost 60 years. He held onto that 15 year-old's total stoke about matting and being in the surf. He reminded us of why we started and why we should always be grateful to ride the ocean's amazing waves.
From Cher and Steve Pedarvis...
Chris, Thank you for sharing. We are so sorry for your loss.
We are so sorry to hear of Rob's passing. He was a genuinely nice guy
and so full of stoke! We never met in person, but enjoyed
commenting/conversing with him online. We are grateful to meet him via
the mat surf community, and share the love of the beautiful Ocean and
wave riding with him.
Rest in Love, Rob.
Warmest Aloha,
Cher and Steve
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1 comment:
Want to thank you ALL for the wonderful kind words and beautiful pictures you all shared of my dear Son Rob. His crossing has brought many dark days to my door, as his Mother, I sorely miss my only Son. Your kind words of him and joy you all shared on this blog, has brought me tears of joy on this Mother's Day. May you all be blessed by Robs love and joy. When he was on his mat, life was beautiful for him. May it be so, for all of your beautiful souls. Paul and Chris, sadly, never got the opportunity to meet you, know your love and kindness meant so much to Rob. He was blessed to have you in his life. We were all blessed to have Rob in our lives. Thank you again Fourth Gear Flyers. Keep flying.��
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